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Young House Love » Love & Marriage » Three Zero

| By John Petersik | November 15, 2011 | 477 Comments

Three Zero

Today I turned 30. Woot.

John Birthday 3 X 10

My mom didn’t make me stand in front of an “I AM 30” banner (or fashion a crown for me) like she has in past years, but she and my dad did have us over for brunch on Sunday morning. It was actually a surprise that Sherry planned with them. I had known about the brunch (since my cousins, aunt, uncle, and little sister had traveled in from DC for the day), but was somehow oblivious to the fact that they might use the gathering to celebrate my thirtieth until a candle-filled plate of muffins was placed in front of me. Oh, but my mom did make me this:

Birthday Mom Spatula Gift

Never one to just slip money or gift cards into an envelope, my mom constructed this “flower” with a happy face spatula and paper leaf pockets that housed some gift cards to my favorite places. Oh, and the can “planter” was stuffed with new running socks (likely my dad’s contribution).

My sisters went in on this for me:

Birthday Bike Poster

It’s the Christine Berrie bicycle print that I’ve always loved over on 20×200. It’s the perfect addition to my bicycled-themed art obsession. Speaking of which, I did actually manage to secure a set of the Gap bicycle prints that I yearned for thanks to a helpful Gap manager (remember when I pined for them here)? We were truly shocked when they arrived at our PO Box. Lesson learned? If you ask enough times, a manager might take pity on you and actually send a sign your way (instead of tossing it into the dumpster). So be the squeaky wheel, folks. And hooray for recycling! (Get it? Bicycle? Cycling? See what I did there?).

We haven’t figured out where to hang my new bike collection yet, so pictures “in situation” will have to wait for another post when we pin down proper locations.

John Birthday 20x200 Print

But I do have “in situation” pictures of what Sherry gifted me. Any guesses?

Birthday Opening Robbie

Yup, it’s a white rhino. Specifically the large Robbie trophy that she bought me from Cardboad Safari. I know it’s probably one of the weirder sentences I’ve ever typed, but rhinos are kind of our thing. We even worked one into our blog header.

John Birthday Rhino Close

Sherry knows that I’ve always loved the larger Cardboard Safari creations (not that I don’t also love our little full-bodied Robbie, who makes frequent appearances in various places like our console table and our laundry room). Big Robbie is an especially fitting gift since I surprised Sherry with a ceramic rhino for V-day a while back (more on how that turned into a highly involved rhino scavenger hunt here). So apparently we like giving each other horned mammals. And they keep getting larger. Maybe we’ll end up with a life sized rhino in our kitchen someday a la the giant dog on Friends.

Oh but one word of warning for anyone else who’s eying a large trophy: be sure to consider how far they stick out from the wall when it comes to where you want to hang them (this guy comes out about 18 inches). We fortunately found this spot where no one’s gonna knock into him when they walk by or sit down (since you stand up in front of the chair and not on the chair). So while nobody puts Baby in a corner, we totally put Robbie in a corner. And we love him there.

John Birthday Rhino Far

Overall, the birthday celebrations were pretty low-key (just the way I like ’em). My family took me out to dinner last night and my mom is babysitting tonight so Sherry can have a date with her old man (aka me, in case that was too cryptic for you). Lately she has been calling me her silver fox because I’m sporting some gray hair in the front. But she swears up and down that it’s a compliment. Her rebuttal is usually “Hello? Anderson Cooper – I rest my case.”

Oh, and since I never got around to making a “to do before I’m 30” blog list (like Nicole), I was pleasantly surprised to find that I had actually made one on paper back in high school (as part of a prompt in my senior English class). Who knew keeping those old notebooks stored away would ever come in handy?

Johns15Before30List

Looks like I had gone back and updated it with “Completed” marks sometime around 2005. And sadly I haven’t checked off many more since then. No new countries (#4), bungee jumping (#6) nor movie roles (#7) for me. Though Sherry and I did visit Hollywood (#8) on our first vacation together in October 2005.

John Birthday Hollywood

And I sorta accomplished #9, if you count my run in with Kelly Clarkson at a client event in May of 2005.

John Birthday Kelly Clarkso

Neither Sherry nor I can remember if we still had our fish when we got Burger, so #10 is an unknown. I definitely haven’t learned how to play the bass guitar (#11)… or even the regular guitar (though I owned one for a short time in 2002). But I did work for the National Geographic Channel (#12) in the summer of 2001. It was far from glamorous, but certainly more satisfying than seeing #13 come true. Oh the lofty dreams of an 18 year old…

And although I had completed #15 by visiting Hawaii with a friend before Sherry and I even started dating, it was nice to earn some bonus points by going to Alaska on our honeymoon.

John Birthday Alaska

Speaking of which, I’m gonna earn a third check mark on #15 when Sherry and I continue the turning-30 celebration next year (Sherry hits the big 3-0 in March) by following through on our plans to vacation in Hawaii (which will also multitask as a vacation to celebrate our fifth wedding anniversary). But more on that another time. A long post like this has made these old bones weary. Just kidding. To anyone wondering, 30 feels just like 29. But Clara’s even more fun this year because she’s walking and talking (and singing hilarious songs). This morning, for example she sang this:

“Twinkle twinkle little star, how I wonder what you said.”

Anyways, thanks to my family for a fun 30th. And to everyone who made my 20’s an exciting and eventful decade. Here’s hoping the 30’s are just as fun!

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Comments

  1. Lindsey @ arkadian belle woods says

    November 15, 2011 at 1:57 pm

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOHN! I hope you have a fantastic day with your gorgeous wife, precious baby doll, and furry son!

    Reply
  2. Shannon says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:00 pm

    I love your list. I wish I would have done something like that when I was younger. Although, it probably would have said things like “Meet Britney Spears” and “Learn the dance routine to Bye Bye Bye by Nsync”. I think it’s a great idea to have a list of things to aspire to, however silly they may seem.

    Reply
  3. Rebecca @ the lil house that could says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:01 pm

    Hawaii is my favorite place ever. Hoping to go back in the next couple of years!

    Reply
  4. Ashlene Murphree says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:01 pm

    Happy Birthday!!! Have a great day with your family!!!!

    Reply
  5. Melissa says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:02 pm

    “So apparently we like giving each other horned mammals. And they keep getting larger.”

    Can’t resist….

    That’s what she said.

    Reply
    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:04 pm

      Haha, I tried so hard to stay away from horny, so I landed on “horned.”

      -John

    • kristen says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:09 pm

      *likesthis*

    • Melissa says

      November 15, 2011 at 7:59 pm

      HAHA I just had to comment! Happy Birthday by the way :-) Enjoy your Horned Mammal! The pictures of it look great! hahaha

  6. Ainhoa says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:02 pm

    Happy birthday!!
    It looks like you had a great time. And Hawaii – I’m jealous!

    Reply
  7. Rachel says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:02 pm

    Welcome to the club. I turned 30 back in September…although I still tell everyone I’m 25. :)

    Reply
  8. Anna says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:03 pm

    i totally need to find my, things i’ll do before i’m 30 list – i’ve got no idea where it would be though….
    my neice sang me “prinkle, prinkle little star” the other morning via skype. it’s pretty much the most awesome thing ever!

    Reply
    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:05 pm

      Aw prinkle is really cute!

      xo,
      s

  9. Randa says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:04 pm

    Happy birthday, b-day twin! Looking forward to the R. Home for the holidays event tomorrow!

    Reply
    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:04 pm

      We can’t wait!

      xo,
      s

  10. Audrey says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:04 pm

    Happy birthday John! I think you’ll love 30. Besides, according to a Chinese proverb, a man at age 30 is a blossoming flower – you’re in your prime, baby!

    Reply
    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:04 pm

      Haha- I love my blossoming flower! Happy b-day hubs!

      xo,
      s

  11. Ashley@AttemptsAtDomestication says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:04 pm

    Happy Birthday!! Hope you and Sherry enjoy your birthday date and horned mammals!! :)

    Reply
  12. Clare says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:04 pm

    Happy Birthday John! Looks like a lot of fun with family, great gifts and have fun on your date with Sherry tonight!

    Reply
  13. Donita says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:05 pm

    Happy Birthday John!!! We share a birthday month!!! ;-) Mine was 11/11/11 and I turned 55. Top that!!! hee hee!!! It looks like you have a great 30th birthday. :-)

    Reply
    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:07 pm

      Nice! Can’t come near topping that one.

      -John

    • Ann says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:52 pm

      Mine also was 11/11/11 and I turned 56(Note to $herdog: 5+6=11)!!! Happy Birthday to you John!

    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:56 pm

      Haha- nice!

      xo,
      s

  14. Liza says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:05 pm

    #13 is the best!!! haha

    Reply
  15. Melanie @ MailboxJourney.Com says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:06 pm

    Happy Birthday John! & Great post, I love learning more about you guys!

    Reply
  16. heather says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:06 pm

    Happy Birthday, John! I send you buckets of celebration from Maine (not snow, don’t worry – it’s still 60 here which is surreal).

    Reply
    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:07 pm

      It’s 80 today here in Richmond! Best day to play in a big leaf pile with the bean ever! If she would just wake up from her nap…

      xo,
      s

    • heather says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:17 pm

      Ahhg that’s awesome! Our trees have lost their leaf’s and are all brown by now. I can’t even imagine November at 80 degrees. That blows my mind haha. 60 feels like a heat wave! I love love love snow, but I have to admit I’m secretly relishing that it’s still so warm out. Warm Thanksgivings are super rare and it’s going to mean a crazy fun outdoor game of something or other. Have a super fun time jumping in the piles with the little one and have fun with the birthday boy tonight!

  17. Ginny P says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:07 pm

    Happy Birthday!

    Reply
  18. Sheryl J says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:07 pm

    Happy Birthday! And that’s pretty cool you were able to mark some more things off your list :)

    Reply
  19. kerri says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:07 pm

    happy birthday! i have one of those lists… just about everything is checked off except the visiting of another country at this point… still planning that one out… :)

    Reply
  20. Cameron says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:08 pm

    Happy birthday!! Welcome to the dirty 30’s!!!! Love your rhino- we have the moose head, so I share your affinity for cardboard hunting trophies. Hope your birthday muffin candle wishes come true!!

    Reply
  21. JMB says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:08 pm

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! Wishing you a year of everything that brings you happiness…ENJOY!!

    Reply
  22. Julie B. says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:08 pm

    For some reason, in this morning’s post, I noticed a piece of one of John’s notes that said he was thankful he turned 29 instead of 30 that year. Funny then, when I saw this post, on the same day, I felt for ya, John. The year is now upon ya!

    I turned 31 this year and I keep telling everyone that I’m 29:)

    Reply
  23. Alicia M says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:09 pm

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOHN!! Being 29 myself (30 in April)…I enjoyed your list of things to accomplish. Thinking I should make one for “things I must do before….50?” :) Enjoy your day!

    Reply
  24. Jill says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:09 pm

    Happy Birthday John! I turn 30 tomorrow. :)

    Reply
    • Katie says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:37 pm

      I also turn 30 tomorrow! :D Happy birthday, fellow November babies from 1981!

    • christy says

      November 15, 2011 at 6:27 pm

      I turn 30 on Sunday. Go Scorpios ;)

  25. Maureen @ This (Kinda) Old House says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:09 pm

    Happy Birthday!!! What a great list! Maybe I will make one for everything I want to do before I am 40. I am 33 and feel pretty much exactly like I did in high school. Sometimes I realize the huge difference of how my parents life was when they were my age. Things sure do change!

    Reply
  26. MissCaron says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:09 pm

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! Love the rhino! Enjoy your date night tonight!

    Reply
  27. Tamryn says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:09 pm

    Happy Birthday John!

    Reply
  28. tara says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:11 pm

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOHN!!

    Reply
  29. Jessica says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:11 pm

    Aww, I love your mother’s creativity! You scored some great goods to ring in the Big 3-0, and the “horned” rhino is certainly a great addition to your awesome collection of wall decor. Congrats on checking off so many items on your “to do” list, and Happy Birthday!

    Reply
  30. Sam Cross says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:11 pm

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

    Sounds like a great way to celebrate, here’s for the 30s!! may they be filled with even more blessing and joy and many exiting adventures!!

    Reply
  31. Elizabeth says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:11 pm

    Awwwwh happy birthday john!

    Reply
  32. Barbara says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:11 pm

    Happy Birthday, John. You’ve had a great run so far. I’m sure the 30’s will be just as big an adventure.

    Reply
  33. Erin @ One Project at a Time says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:12 pm

    Happy Birthday John. I love that your bucket list included “Live to see the Real World DC.” Not be on it, or even be a part of it, just live to see it. Classic.

    Reply
    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:16 pm

      I know right? I was cracking up when I read that one out loud to John (I discovered it first, so he was dying to hear what was so funny).

      xo,
      s

  34. karen says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:12 pm

    so nice!! Happy birthday Johnny boy!!

    Reply
  35. Donita says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:12 pm

    LOVED your ten reasons you are thankful for Clara!!! Precious!!!
    *Forgot to say, GREAT BIRTHDAY GIFTS! The bike pictures are awesome, and LOVE that rhino!!! ;-)

    Reply
  36. Kelly Gross says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:13 pm

    Happy Birthday! Thanks for all your ideas and DIY knowledge.

    Reply
  37. Meagan says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:13 pm

    I don’t have a “before 30” list…although I am only 23 (for 6 more days) I still have time to make one. I do have a list of things I want to do while I am still single. Little stuff like go to a movie alone…quit biting my nails (i know gross)…run a 5K (I am a terrible runner) and even big stuff like go back to Australia and live there for 6 mos to a year. Lists are so fun! haha I am such a nerd.

    Reply
    • Meagan says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:14 pm

      I hit enter to quickly…I was going to add in there: HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOHN!!!!!

  38. Catharine @ Your Modern Couple says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:14 pm

    Happy Birthday John!! I have that same Robbie the rhino in my living room. Aren’t they just so much fun to put together? I was kind of sad when it was over. I should probably get him a buddy.. :)

    Reply
    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:16 pm

      Oh yeah- I think we need a whole wall of them now…

      -John

  39. Bob says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:15 pm

    So Sherry refers to you as her Dad (her “old man”) and as a homosexual (Anderson Cooper). The fire burns hot in that house of yours! ;)

    Reply
    • Bob says

      November 15, 2011 at 10:39 pm

      Really? I see how it is now. You’ll post but not respond. Got it.

  40. Caroline says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:16 pm

    Happy Birthday, John! Sounds like a pretty good time :)

    And I LOVE Clara’s lyrics! Adorable! <3

    Reply
  41. Julie B. says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:16 pm

    And I love the rendition of Twinkle, Twinkle by Clara. My daughter, Peyton, always says “how I wonder what you are; up my butt, the world so high”. And my husband and I die. Over and over. Every single time.

    Reply
    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:25 pm

      Hahahahahahahahahah. Best rendition ever.

      xo,
      s

    • Sandra T says

      November 15, 2011 at 3:22 pm

      Happy Birthday old man! And I love it when kids interpret song lyrics their own way: My daughter used to sing “Baa Baa Black Sheep” with the classic words “baa baa black sheep, heavy heavy wool”, which always cracked everyone up!

    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 5:24 pm

      Haha- too funny. We’re loving all the “kids say” stories. Hilarious!

      xo,
      s

    • Nancy says

      November 15, 2011 at 5:28 pm

      That is so funny…..”up my butt”,

  42. Anna says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:17 pm

    Woo hoo!!! Happy birthday, John!

    P.S. That list of things to do before you turn 30 is awesome. Now I kinda wish I have made one back in high school. :)

    Reply
  43. Sarah says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:17 pm

    I love these “old” pics! Hope you had a great birthday – looks like it was perfect :)

    Reply
  44. Holly@Loveoflifeblog says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:18 pm

    John this is hilarious! And number 13 is obviously the more important accomplishment!

    Reply
  45. Katied says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:18 pm

    Happy 30th! Today is my birthday too – I’m 24 :) Nov. 15 is the best day for a bday, in my opinion…once halloween hits, its one holiday after another!

    Reply
    • Katie Noel says

      November 15, 2011 at 4:09 pm

      It’s my birthday as well and I am 24 too! Looks like we might have the same name as well….or similar! How coincidental!

    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 4:15 pm

      So funny! Happy b-day to all the Katie’s and all the other b-day peeps today!

      xo,
      s

  46. Deb says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:19 pm

    Happy Birthday John !!! I love watching your kitchen grow each day ,please ,I am begging you ,when your kitchen is completed I hope its not like the Nate show where its all about the cooking with your new appliances ,maybe its just me but seems like when I am lucky enough to catch his show its all about cooking which is great but I tune in for the decorating advise and ideas . Is it just me? lol anyway hope its a great 30ith for you and your wonderful family !

    Reply
    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:27 pm

      Haha – not to worry. We’re terrible chefs. This will never become even close to a cooking blog. Promise.

      -John

  47. Janke says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:20 pm

    Happy Birthday!!! Have an awesome day with your family!
    I’m going to turn 30 in April. And I have no clue how this could happen so fast. Hey, wasn’t I 18 last week?!

    Reply
  48. Michelle says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:21 pm

    Happy Birthday! Great post.

    Reply
  49. Manda says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:22 pm

    Love Clara! So cute. My 2 year old daughter calls her forehead “head fork”

    Reply
    • YoungHouseLove says

      November 15, 2011 at 2:24 pm

      Bwahahahahahahahaha. Hilarious.

      xo,
      s

  50. WendyMI says

    November 15, 2011 at 2:22 pm

    Happy Birthday, John!!!

    Reply
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