Here’s The Thing…

So, funny story about the house below. We bought it and we’re moving in.

We know this news probably evokes a whole range of reactions. Excitement for new makeovers. Sadness for leaving our current house. Curiosity about all of the logistics. Confusion. Anger. The inexplicable urge to do The Carlton.

Starting this story requires rewinding seven years, back to our first house hunting experience in Richmond in the spring of 2006. We had just moved from New York City and Richmond real estate felt very spacious and very cheap by comparison. It made dreamers out of us. We checked out a bunch of neighborhoods, and fell for an awesome old area with nice big wooded lots, great schools, charming tree-lined streets, and kids on scooters.

But none of the sweet old character-filled houses in that neighborhood were in our price range, especially because the bank had no faith in us. The issue was not our savings, but the fact that I was less than 2 months into my new job and Sherry was just as deep into her career as a freelance copywriter. In the eyes of the bank, Sherry was unemployed since she was a newbie self employed person (even though she was earning more than me!) so I ended up being the only name on the loan – basically cutting our buying power in half. Goodbye dream neighborhood, hello this looker.

As deflating as that financial reality check was, it turned out to be one of the biggest blessings. Had we not been steered towards a fixer upper, we might not have ever started this blog or learned the advantage of buying a home that’s well within our means. By not stretching financially, we could stash away a lot more project money and build up our nest egg – because we hadn’t lost sight of that neighborhood we first fell for, we had just put that dream on hold.

Fast forward 4.5 years, past a new puppy, a wedding in the backyard, Clara’s birth, and me coming home to work full-time. Our beloved little 1,250 sq ft ranch (with only one full bathroom) was suddenly feeling cramped and we found ourselves house hunting again. Dream neighborhood here we come, right? Try again, compadre. This time I was the financial deadweight (having just left a salaried job six months earlier to come work at home – great timing, right?). So once again we found ourselves approved for something far below our actual mortgage-paying abilities thanks to the bank’s you-haven’t-done-this-self-employment-thing-long-enough-for-it-to-count doubt.

But it dropped another gem of a fixer upper in our laps. And this time we knew that an affordable needs-work home meant even more projects and more money squirreled away for our “maybe someday” neighborhood.

Now, I wouldn’t say we ever consciously thought of these homes as “stepping stones” or rungs on a property ladder that we were itching to climb. Even though we always loved that dream neighborhood from afar, Sherry was fully convinced our first house would be our “forever home” (we even have that statement on video). When we fall in love with a house, we fall hard. But the experience of outgrowing and leaving our first place made us realize that we enjoy the process of loving an old house back to life way too much to stop at just one.

So when we moved into this house, we went into things with a more open attitude. Knowing we’d soak up every second of living here (you know we’re nuts about the journey) but no longer making bold declarations like “we’ll stay here forever.” Admittedly, at halfway through year three of living here, the end came a bit sooner than we expected, but our time here since 2010 has been jam-packed. We’ve celebrated three Christmases in this house, created a book from start to finish here, and enjoyed countless Clara milestones (crawling, walking, talking, Gangnam Style-ing). So this place is by no means a blip on the timeline of our family history. It has been “home” through a heckova lot, which makes leaving it that much more bittersweet.

We just knew we didn’t want our current place to be our last fixer upper (it’s not only what we love to do, it’s our livelihood), so when we felt ourselves tackling the last few untouched rooms on our list we started casually keeping one eye open for a deal that could be a potential rental or even a future Casa Petersik. We’d occasionally flip through real estate listings and drop in on open houses. We always hoped that something would come up in our price range in that dream neighborhood so we could jump on it like a velociraptor, but after two house-hunting experiences that didn’t lead to us ending up there, we weren’t very confident.

And then it happened. Pretty much out of nowhere, we found the sweetest needs-lots-of-love home in that old charming neighborhood that we’ve driven through at least five times a year just to stare creepily since 2006. Yes, this is a seven-years-in-the-making house coup of ours. We would have loved to take you guys on the house hunting adventure with us like last time, but it all happened so fast and before we knew it we were closing on it.

And thanks to putting some of that saved-for-years cash down at closing, our new house’s mortgage amount is almost exactly the same as our current house’s – but our interest rate is even lower. We both spent closing day waiting for Ashton Kutcher to jump out and scream “you got punked!” but all went well and the house is officially ours. We’ve even had it long enough to fix some first-priority issues like a leaking roof, a broken furnace, and even hooked up the alarm system.

The house hasn’t been updated since it was built around 35 years ago, and knowing that its interior might scare off others trying to buy in a mostly turn-key community, the sellers priced it way under assessment. It was over $100,000 less than another house of the same size that was for sale down the street. A low-priced fixer upper in a neighborhood that we’ve dreamed about for almost a decade? Yes please. 70’s wallpaper, blue trim, lumpy carpet and all…

Beyond the price, neighborhood, and glaring need to be rescued – this place is perfect for us in so many other ways. It’s nearly the exact same size as our current place (huzzah, no more extra square feet to clean). The street is beautiful and quiet (perfect for someday teaching Clara to ride a bike). It’s still just as close to our family (maybe they can watch Clara while we strip wallpaper). And it presents us with so many new design challenges and opportunities that our minds are spinning with ideas. I mean, hello, we have stairs for the first time in seven years of home-ownership!

Perhaps the funniest thing is that at our age, my parents were moving into their third house, which was where they stayed for over three decades. So apparently it’s in the Petersik blood.

We know that you guys probably have dozens of questions – When are we moving in? (Don’t know yet) When can you see more pictures? (Soon) What does Clara think? (She already picked out her room… based on the closet size. Is she 16?) But this post would be ten thousand words if we tried to cover everything, so we’ll get to those things in time. We also have a few things to finish around here to get our current house sold (anyone interested?) so in an effort to keep our own minds focused on those to-dos, it won’t be all new house posts all the time. We’ll just be moving at our usual real-time pace and sharing a little bit of everything that’s happening (selling, packing, planning, moving, and diving into our new house adventure).

Did I mention these two are the most excited of all? Okay, three if you count Ariel.

We can’t wait to continue sharing the good, the bad, and the ugly with you guys. Seriously, who wants to come paint some mauve trim with us? And if there were a moral to this story, it’s patience. This is not “the house the book bought” (we still haven’t hit our royalty point), it’s the house that seven years of saving up and living within our means bought. Had we strained our wallets and gone for a larger or more turn-key house back in 2006, we probably would’ve had a very different financial path, and most certainly would have had a different career path. So even though we had to wait a while, it just makes this new chapter in our lives that much sweeter. Who knows, we might just stay there forever…


  1. adina says

    Congrats!!! Would love to have detailed tutorials on how to get rid of all that wall paper. We still have 2 layers deep in our bedroom and I’m scared to tackle it and destroy the drywall underneath. We’ve had such issues with wallpaper. Good luck with everything else!

  2. says

    So exciting!!! I just adore you guys (and I figure that there’s no way that I’m creepy in saying that…. or at least I’m not the only creepy person to say it) and am so excited for this new house of yours. If I were in your area, uh, yes, I’d be jumping into your house before you could say mamarama. I have dreams of fixing fixer uppers but I have to live vicarious through you since my hubby is not currently there yet. One day. Maybe.

  3. Katie says

    INTERNET MAGIC. New house!

    I think I might be a little in shock, but very, very happy for you guys. What a beautiful house.

    I do really wish you had shared this story as it was going on. What I love about this blog is that you usually don’t just wave a magic wand and have completely finished projects appear. The nitty gritty and the step-by-by step is interesting, and seeing the projects broken into human-sized pieces with human emotions diary-style gives me confidence that I can do these things too. (I painted my first room because of this blog!) So I hope you’ll go back and share the stories about finding the house, and negotiating for it, and fixing the roof and the furnace and the alarm system.

    • says

      Oh yes, we’ll share all of that soon! You know we’ll cover every last detail! Sometimes things happen all at once on top of each other, so we just blog about each one at a time :)


  4. Holly P. says

    Wow, so weird. I was just thinking the other day with the pergola that you guys seemed to be just about finished with the house. Oh sure, not completely finished but it just seemed…done. And I thought ‘wonder if they will start looking for another house soon’.

    So, CONGRATULATIONS! VERY EXCITED for you all! And oh joy, we had some of that funky wallpaper in our house when we moved in 15 yrs ago.

  5. says

    OMG! So many emotions going on right now, mostly happy! I cannot wait to follow you guys on this new adventure! (Hope that doesn’t sound creepy!) Congratulations, the new house is so beautiful!

  6. Abigail says

    We are kind of in the same position. Bought small house at bottom of our price range 5 years ago and trying to save money to move into our dream neighborhood. I was discouraged last night thinking about house stuff and this really encouraged me this morning. Thank you. And congrats!

  7. says

    Oh my god, this is so shocking! I was so so sure WE were being punked and was just waiting for it… but congratulations! This sounds so perfect for you guys and I’m excited to follow along for all the new, exciting projects! :) This also makes me feel old–I’ve officially followed along as you guys have bought your last two houses! You’re so entertaining, time flies!

  8. says

    Oh my god, congratulations! I was another one in the ‘this is blatantly a joke, let’s keep reading’ camp – I even felt a teeny bit terrified when I realised you weren’t joking! It seems sad to be leaving the house you’ve put so much time and effort into, but very exciting to have a blank canvas to put your stamp on.

    Good luck!

  9. Mary Buckelew says

    I don’t know whether to laugh or cry! I feel like I was left out of the decision… ha ha… you’re like family! I’m sure the new house will be SO WONDERFUL and I’m excited for you to be in a lovely, lovely neighborhood. YAY! Good luck!

  10. Jenn says

    WOW, WOW, WOW!! Congrats! That home is going to be fabulous! Love the bones…can’t wait to follow along on your new journey and see what ya’ll do with it.

  11. Heidi says

    I definitely wondered if this was a late April Fool’s joke at first! Congratulations – what a beautiful home!

  12. Allison says

    Sooo exciting!!! I totally did the double take on my calendar thinking this was another April Fools Day joke! At first I was so bummed because I first started reading your blog about 3 months before you moved out of the first house and LOVED everything about that house and didn’t want to like the second house. But it has really grown on me. Just yesterday I was browsing through the archives reading about your moving process (I’m looking at a move in the very near future..SCARY!!) and marveling at all the progress you’ve made since then. But, I love your blog and can’t wait to see what you do next!!

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