On The Road Again: A Gorges Wedding Weekend

Occasionally we do get out of the house. And occasionally it’s to more exotic places than Home Depot or Target. So just like our past adventures to Savannah, Florida and our road trip to Dallas we wanted to take you along for our Labor Day weekend trip to Ithaca, NY. The reason for the trip? Sherry’s brother Dan was gettin’ hitched!

Yep, that’s Almost-Doctor-Dan (as many of you know him) marrying his bride Ali during their beautiful lakeside wedding in wine country just outside of Ithaca. The ceremony was touching and fun-filled at the same time (the officiant was their friend and Wedding Bee blogger Mrs. Hermit Crab, fyi). I even got to watch my two girls walk down the aisle together (Sherry actually wore Clara in her carrier, which seemed to be a hit with other wedding-goers). Not too shabby for Clara’s first wedding.

The wedding took place at a picturesque spot called The Fontainebleu Inn, a historic estate that we got to explore a lot of as we hunted for private spots for diaper changes and nursing.

While the weekend was certainly filled with family and wedding-related adventures, we carved out some time of our own to explore the area. And thanks to some tips from readers Amanda, Kirsten, Ashley, Julie, Nicole, and Josh (via Twitter/Facebook) we were able to live like true Ithacans for a couple of days – which we’re pretty sure requires inserting a “gorges” pun periodically into conversation.

Wordplay aside, Ithaca was a scenic spot with lots of opportunities for sightseeing and photo taking (too bad we managed to forget the good camera at home). For example, here’s Ithaca Falls – which actually cascades right through the center of town:

We also checked out Cornell Plantations (both Dan & Ali met at Cornell where he was getting his undergrad, and he’s now getting his PHD at Columbia and they’re living it up in NYC like Sherry and I once did). The plantations were a HUGE area filled with gardens, lakes, walking paths, and an arboretum. Sherry’s biggest takeaway from that trip was actually these chunky stone steps that were spotted frequently (and sat upon occasionally). Makes us want to do some landscaping!

But beyond beautiful greenery, one of the things that impressed us most about Ithaca was its green-ness. Perhaps its because its residents are blessed with such a stunning natural setting that they seemed to work extra hard at being eco. We lost count of the number of places we spotted with compost receptacles right alongside the standard trash and recycling bins – like this one at Collegetown Bagels. And nearly every cup and plastic utensil that we used was recycled and even compostable.

And their Farmer’s Market kind puts Richmond’s to shame. Once we managed to find a parking spot, we loved how there was not only fresh local food to buy (or eat on the spot) but tons of housewares, clothing, and art too.

We particularly loved the style of these graphic clothes and handmade pillows. We left empty handed though because we arrived devoid of any cash (which was probably a good thing since our car was packed with baby stuff anyway).

And thanks to the tips sent by our readers, we also were able to check out a lot of stores with waste-not mentality, like Home Green Home – which even carried those beer and soda bottle tumblers I tried to make (for $8 a pop, by the way). Sigh.

There was also an architectural salvage spot called Significant Elements that carried your usual collection of old windows, doors, and plumbing fixtures along with some more interesting finds that we loved:

We also ventured into a thrift store called Mimi’s Attic that focused on just household items, including some upcycled furniture like these brightly colored pieces that would provide a fun Domino-ish pop of color.

Right next to Mimi’s Attic was a second-hand baby store called Mama Goose. It was filled with gently used clothing, books, games, and any other kind of baby gear you could think of. We even walked out with some of the Charlie’s Soap that many of our varsity cloth diapering readers had recommended for washing Clara’s dipes. So far we’re loving it by the way.

Ithaca actually had a lot of great places for kid-related shopping. At the Ithaca Commons walking mall (where we found Home Green Home) there was also a place called Jillian’s Drawers. They introduced us to the novel concept of buying gently used cloth diapers (they looked like new) and renting baby carriers so you can figure out which is best for you before buying one (which definitely can save money and storage space since you’re guaranteed to end up with something you and your wee one like). Genius.

There was also an awesome toy store called Alphabet Soup that we thoroughly enjoyed (even though Clara slept through it- figures). I couldn’t decide which I liked most: the bright recycled-wood dinosaur toy or the chunky modern alphabet blocks.

But then I spotted the Plan Toys Green Dollhouse and suddenly had a clear winner in my mind. We already own a few Plan Toys because they’re green and fun, so we were totally entertained by the thought of someday getting this dollhouse for Clara. Yes, it actually has a recycling station and solar panels.

So that wraps up our little trip to Ithaca. Thanks again to the folks who offered up suggestions for what to see and do (we also loved our dinner at the Moosewood Restaurant and the Hot Truck subs that we snagged before the wedding). We’d love to go back to Ithaca someday when Clara’s a bit older and we can take her on some of those “gorges” waterfall hikes. Ok, I think I’m done with the gorgeous/gorges puns for now.

Have any of you guys traveled to (or lived in) Ithaca and have other must-see, must-do, or must-eat items to add to the mix for a future trip by us or someone reading? Or do you have other Ithaca-like cities that you’d suggest we check out?


  1. bindc says

    Love Ithaca. Haven’t been back in years. You went to a bunch of places we didn’t get a chance to go to so if we ever go back, we’ll be sure to hit some of those great spots you highlighted.

    Looks like you had a great time. Congrats to Almost-Dr-Dan and his bride, Ali. Cheers!

  2. Christa M says

    What a beautiful weekend! Makes me want to book a trip to Asheville (it’s closer)…I’m just afraid that I won’t want to leave….and I’m not ready to move just yet.

    • says

      Hey Amy,

      It was gorgeous! But since Clara and I were actually in the ceremony (we had a job to do! plus all of my energy was being put towards not tripping) we couldn’t document it as thoroughly as we would have liked ourselves (although we hope to see professional shots in a few months). You might want to hop over to WeddingBee (in this post we linked to a blogger there who plans to share all the details soon) and search for Dan and Ali after a few weeks to see if it’s published. Hope it helps!


  3. Christine says

    Ah, this brings back memories of gorges Ithaca! My sister went to Cornell, so I had some good times visiting there. The whole area is so picturesque and has that crunchy granola college town thing going for it. I always loved the farmers’ market and the stores on the Commons. Ithaca is where I discovered the carb-tastic bagel :) For anyone into wine, this is prime vineyard hopping territory! And tons of water-related activities on this and the other Finger Lakes. I’m missing my New York…

  4. Becca says

    Along with the “green” topics – I’m on a project team with my firm that’s currently working on the nation’s first sustainable airport master plan at Ithaca-Tompkins Regional Airport! We’ve actually included some college classes at Cornell and Ithaca College to partake in this project and come up with ideas for various projects at the airport. Ithaca seems like the perfect place for a venture like this. If you’re interested, the project website is here: http://www.sustainableith.com/

    Love all the pics! I spent 4 days in the airport terminal doing passenger surveys and never had the chance to venture out into all those gorgeous gorges! :)

  5. Angela says

    I almost went to Ithaca College. It was little too much $ and little too far from home though. I can’t imagine what it’s like there in the winter. I remember being fascinated that the buildings on campus were connected by underground tunnels so you didn’t have to go outside.

    You should make a trip to the Berkshires someday, particularly Stockbridge or Great Barrington. Like Ithaca it has beautiful scenery, cute shops, and much of it has gone green.

  6. says

    OMG! I think my friends got married in the same spot earlier this summer. I had never been to Ithaca before and it was just such a beautiful place!

  7. Anne says

    Love your tour of Ithaca! As an Ithacan myself, I would have recommended some other places to eat – Maxie’s Supper Club being a must – and just want to let you know that the shop on the Commons is called Jillian’s Drawers. Someday you’ll have to come back for IthacaFestival – truly one of a kind.

  8. Patti says

    I was in Ithaca last Fall to take my nephew up to Cornell for his freshman year, but with 10 trips to Target and such, we never got to go to any of the cool spots you found. Maybe next time!

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